In and out of love
Three lessons in love we should be aware
of:
1. Relationships doesn't live on love alone.
As man doesn't live in bread alone.
A relationship with love alone is like a
plant which is planted in a good soil and
was given enough carbon dioxide but without
water and sunlight to nurture it and make
it alive.
It may have all the minerals that it needs
to grow for a while but soon enough it will
wither and die. Too bad that sometimes it
results in a painful death.
Respect would be sunlight as trust would be
water.
Sunlight is needed for the plant to create
its own food by itself to survive.
Respect is needed so that partners can
achieve their individual dreams.
Water is needed for the minerals in the
soil to be transported and absorbed by the
plant.
As trust is needed to confirm each other's
love.
2. (Remember your chemistry at work: Law of
conservation of energy it also works for
love)
Love is neither created nor destroyed.
It may sounds impossible but its true. I
once read an observation like this in
peyups.com and realization sets in once I
have experienced it.
Energy is neither created nor destroyed
because it will just be transformed into
another form.
Love that is loss will just be given to
another entity. Just like what most people
experiences and like what happened to me.
Love loss for your partner will be
transformed to love for yourself.
You need to love yourself so that
relationships can grow. So that errors made
will not be wasted because you have learned
from it.
3. Relationships that did not end
successfully should be closed (Closing
cycles by Paulo Coelho)
We should not dwell on the past because its
already ended. We can no longer change it.
Painful it may seems but soon enough we can conquer it. I haven't conquer it yet but of course I will.
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